Minimal Prep for Thanksgiving

These seats look ready for a party.

When I was a kid, holidays were a big deal. Thanksgiving meant family cramming in around the tables, buffets heaped with food, a gravy boat, homemade cranberry sauce, and patent leather shoes. I loved the running around, the jolly games, the climbing under the table, the singing around the piano, and the desserts with whipped cream out of can. Sometimes, I’d get to light the candles and I’d feel magically important.

As I aged into a teenager, it was my job to help with prep: setting tables with linen and china, buying groceries, peeling potatoes, cleaning toilets, finding hand towels, and hauling up wood for the fireplaces. Then there were dishes afterward that stretched on for hours and sometimes days. I still loved seeing my extended family, but I started resenting the work that went along with holiday celebrations. As I worried that I was fated to inherit an even heavier work load once I entered the aunt generation, I questioned whether the trappings of the traditions were worth the effort.

It turns out, I needn’t have worried. My family’s expectations for Thanksgiving are simple, and thankfully, we’ve arrived in a new age when nobody expects fancy anything. We all pitch in to make the food, we all set the table, and we all clean up. All of it is shared, and that leaves time for all of us to go for a run beforehand (yay, Manchester Road Race!) and play games around pie later in the day. We still have traditions, but they’re more about laughter and coming together, and for that, I’m grateful.

4 Responses to Minimal Prep for Thanksgiving

  • Your Thanksgiving sounds lovely. It bears a close resemblance to the Thanksgiving my family has arrived at celebrating (finally). Comfy clothes, movies, only the food we actually want to eat (we like chicken not turkey, it turns out). Relaxing and no polishing silver (my personal nightmare).

    Wishing you a very happy Thanksgiving!

  • Lucia ~ I thought of you, with your love of home, as I was writing this post. You come from the same tradition I do, so I knew you’d understand, and I’m glad you, too, have found the right kind of celebration for your gang.

  • Happy a Thanksgiving from California…..not much prep for me…we are gathering at Naki’s in laws and we are all helping with the preparation and then playing with the kids in the California sun. Hope to see you for a cup of tea when we return.

  • Marina ~ That sounds delightful! Happy Thanksgiving to your family. We’ll for sure meet up once you’re back.

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